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A Way With Women

Have you felt felt invisible — standing next to guys who seemed naturally confident, wondering what they had that I didn’t. Then you NEED THIS 

Hey, fellas, today we have the lovely Jessica. She’s the real cat’s meow if you get my drift. Tell us, Jessica, how do should we read a woman’s body language? How can I tell if she’s into me? First, don’t spend too much time trying to reading a woman’s vibe.

Rather than just creating a natural interaction, otherwise you’ll be focusing on the wrong areas. If a woman is interested, she’ll demonstrate it one way or another. Don’t get caught spending too much effort trying to size her up and interpreting her feelings. Instead, just make a genuine effort at creating attraction.

Your role is to take control of interaction between you two and lead it where it needs to go. If you’re still unclear about her level of interest in you or wondering if she’s just being polite, watch to see if she’s doing any of the following. Number one is she’s preening. Preening is when she’s trying to improve her appearance, such as thrusting her chest out, moistening her lips, adjusting her hair, and straightening her clothes.

When a woman is interested, she will subconsciously become a bit insecure about her appearance and start making herself feel more attractive. >> You’re peeking my interest if you get where I’m coming from. >> Number two is she’s keeping good eye contact and frequently smiling.

Good eye contact means that she’s not constantly scanning the room or looking to her friends. If she isn’t paying you significant attention, then it’s better to move on. If you say something funny, does she react positively, a smile or a laugh? The way to tell whether a smile is genuine or not, or are her eyes squinting at least a little? This is a key indication.

Number three is her body language. Is it open, loose, and comfortable? Make sure her arms aren’t crossed in front of her and she’s not oriented away from you. A woman will also judge the distance between the two of you. You can use this as an indicator of her interest.

Is she leaning into you or pulling away? Does she pull back when you get into her personal space? >> That’s some penetrating info if you dig what I mean. Are there any other signs you can share? >> Sure, the last and best signal is she touches you. For example, she’ll touch your arm in some way if she’s finding you attractive.

This usually happens at when she’s made to laugh about something or really sees something in the same way you do. So when it comes, you should accept it as a legitimate sign of affection. But don’t let it knock you off your game and get you all unsettled. If you’re paying too much attention to small matters, you’ll appear hesitant and lacking in confidence.

Just relax and pay attention to the feel and flow of the conversation, rather than looking too hard for signs from her that are supposed to tell you what to do. >> Well, there you have it, gentlemen. Use those cues to bust your moves.

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